A Russian Proverb

There’s an old Russian proverb: “You live as long as you are remembered.” It’s a powerful thought—one that goes beyond accolades, wealth, fame, or even family heirlooms. But where does it come from?

In Russian culture, remembrance is sacred. For centuries, people have gathered on the third, ninth, and fortieth days after a loved one’s passing, sharing stories, toasting to their memory, and keeping them alive through words.

Beyond those initial mourning rituals, families continue to honor their ancestors through annual remembrance days, storytelling, and traditions passed from one generation to the next.

In Russia and other Slavic countries, Radonitsa, or Day of Rejoicing, is celebrated on the ninth day after Orthodox Easter, when families visit cemeteries, share meals at gravesites, and speak about their loved ones.

They believe a person truly “dies” only when their name is spoken for the last time. This is why ancestors are honored, their stories repeated, and their impact never allowed to disappear.

So, what really lasts? The moments. The lessons. The stories that get repeated at every holiday gathering, the wisdom tucked into casual conversations, the laughter that echoes through generations.

But here’s the hard truth: stories fade. Even the best ones. If they’re not written down, recorded, or intentionally passed on, they vanish. And when they vanish, so does a piece of the person who lived them.

So, ask yourself: Are the stories that define your family—the moments, the lessons, the struggles and triumphs—going to outlive you and your loved ones? Or will they fade, lost in the shuffle of time?

You have a choice. You can ensure those stories stay alive. Start today. Ask questions. Record voices. Capture the essence of a life beyond just dates and facts. Because the true measure of a life isn’t found in what’s left behind—it’s in who still remembers.

Until next time,

Jeremiah Kalb
"Your Family's Personal Biographer"

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