Write with Feeling Plus More

There’s something quietly magical about family memories. They slip into conversation over dinner, surface in old photos, and sometimes vanish before we realize how much they mattered.

If you’ve ever thought, “I should write that down someday,” consider this your nudge.

As someone who has always believed in the power of stories to connect us across generations, across time, I’m borrowing a little inspiration from the great Charles Dickens, who understood that even the smallest life holds a world of meaning.

Whether looking back or helping a loved one share their past, here are three heartfelt, timeless ways to begin preserving your family’s story—before it becomes just a whisper.

1. Write with Feeling, Not Just Facts

Don’t get stuck thinking it must sound formal or “important.” The best family stories are the ones told with heart. Write the way you’d speak to someone you love. Share what things felt like—not just what happened. The laughter, the struggles, the hopes. Those are what make memories stick.

2. Everyone Has a Role to Play

You might not think your cousin’s obsession with hot sauce is worth mentioning, but it probably is. Every family member brings something colorful to the table. Don’t just focus on the “main characters.” The quiet ones, the quirky ones, the unexpected heroes—they all deserve a line or two in the story.

3. Start Now Before It Slips Away

Time has a way of fading the edges of our stories. If there’s a memory, a moment, or a voice you want to hold onto, capture it now. Jot it down. Record it. Ask the questions. Don’t wait for the “perfect” time. The smallest memory today might be the most treasured one tomorrow.

Ultimately, it’s not about grand achievements—it’s about ordinary lives remembered with extraordinary care.

Until next time,

Jeremiah Kalb
“Your Family's Personal Biographer”

PLUS: Whenever you’re ready . . . here’s how I can help you:

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